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Say it Ain't So: Overcoming the Language Barriers to Inclusiveness

Posted By USFN, Tuesday, February 15, 2022
by Sally Garrison, Esq.

The Mortgage Law Firm, PC*

USFN Member (AZ, CA, HI, OK, OR, WA)

 

Words, and their effective use, fascinate me. The right word choice can elevate an argument; twist a phrase into something funny or biting; and give your audience a taste of your internal life. Alternatively, the view that there is a “right way” to communicate can be used to enforce social bias.

 

I was raised under the misapprehension that there is a right way of speaking:

  • “Ain’t” ain’t a word.
  • I don’t know if you CAN go to the park, but you MAY go.
  • You lie down for a nap; you lay down the blanket.
  • Irregardless is not a word, regardless of its use and its inclusion in Webster’s Dictionary.[1]

 

As a child, I bridled under these arbitrary rules and wanted to lodge a complaint about how these rules were ruining my life. My parents understood what I was saying. Why require this elaborate verbal dance to be acceptable? In my parents’ defense, they were not alone in this pursuit. They were the first in a long line of “right speech” advocates.

 

Eventually, I bought in. There is something exclusive about knowing “the rules,” like being invited to a VIP section. Viewed differently, these rules are gatekeepers. They create an elitist barrier biased toward a particular group of people and against most others. I became aware of this issue when I studied abroad in Ireland. My Irish roommates explained the impressions our various U.S. accents created to their Irish ears: New York was impatient, Boston was combative, and Southern drawl meant provincial. And mine? I had what they called a TV accent – no region, no character, but totally without baggage. My heart broke under the impression that my words made me boring, but acceptable.

 

That is when I started to think about why language style is sometimes given more weight than language content. It is when you consider what styles are “acceptable,” and which are not, that uncomfortable truths start appearing. This gatekeeping is “linguicism” or “accentism” – discrimination based on one’s language or accent.

 

People generally favor their own dialect, justifying the preference as “easier to understand.” This preference further reveals itself in the practice of code-switching – the choice to alter speech patterns to reflect the expectations of the audience. This starts at a young age - talking to your friends differently than adults. I have engaged in this practice countless times. For example, I lean into regional twang and provincial patterns to blend into a rural courtroom when I believe that being a “city lawyer” will not be an advantage. What is painfully obvious to me, however, is that my choices remain a luxury and at my option. My experience is that my vernacular is deemed professionally “acceptable.” I never worry that my dialect or written word will cost me a job or make my work performance more challenging. I never think that I need to change the way I speak at work to be viewed as acceptable and educated. This is not true for many speakers of the dozens of dialects spoken in the U.S. Many feel the burden to speak “correctly” to be taken seriously, and that means sacrificing their native dialect or living a double life, code-switching to protect both their professional and cultural identity.

 

Many would classify my general vernacular as Standard American English (SAE). What makes SAE “standard?” And why are other dialects (like African-American Vernacular English, Louisiana Creole, Ozark, Gullah, Boston Urban, Bonac, Southern Appalachian to name a few) such a barrier in the professional world?

 

Many impugn those beautiful dialects as “uneducated,” believing SAE to be the only option in education. But how could this view possibly be held as true? Must you change your vernacular to seek education? Of course not. However, the professors and publishers may demand it of you, whether written or spoken, to meet their imposed SAE-standards. Although viewed as “correct speech,” the SAE-centric impression of other dialects as inferior inherently considers the bundle of identity markers which built that dialect: socio-economic status, race, nationality, opportunity, and marginalization.

 

Further, the irony of such SAE-centered thinking is astounding. British English (BrE), the standard from which SAE is derived, should set the standard for SAE spelling: theatre, colour, realise, aeroplane, paediatrican, traveller, wilful – the list of alternate spellings goes on and on.[2] To a BrE speaker, SAE looks to be a C+ speller, at best. Why the difference? Historically, many of our ancestors did not possess the resources to confirm BrE spellings and resorted to phonetic spelling. Immigration and the introduction of other languages changed our accents, which accelerated the changes in spelling. The SAE evolution produced an altered phonetic rubric, omission of “extra” vowels, and reordered letters. Yet, the SAE standard demands we follow its singular evolutionary path – produced in part by restricted access to educational resources – to be “educated.”

 

Why does this matter? Because the SAE-centric view is another hurdle between our professions and inclusiveness. We should want a professional marketplace which encourages vibrant regional dialects; a work environment that sees the texture, interest, and history in regional or social speech patterns; and a culture that celebrates the people who inhabit those dialects. In such an environment, there is no need to force people into the TV-accent box.

 

I do not advocate for anarchy. Many words and phrases are not business appropriate like profanity. I still believe in the power of words and language – I just don’t believe my dialect holds the only power. In fact, I am certain it does not; there are worlds of powerful words and phrases that I have yet to uncover. That is exciting, but I also feel cheated that our self-imposed standards have suppressed such linguistic wealth. Our professional world needs to embrace cultural diversity in language as well as other markers of identity. We will be richer for it.



[1] Full disclosure: I still follow these rules, but I don’t impose them anymore.

[2] For my lawyers, “judgment” is the SAE spelling. “Judgement” is the BrE spelling. So, before you correct an associate, you might reflect on this.

 

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Breaking Down Generations of Stereotyping and Misconceptions: Uncommon Roles for Men

Posted By Kristi Payne, Monday, December 13, 2021
Updated: Wednesday, June 29, 2022

by Victor Kang, Esq.
Rubin Lublin, LLC*
USFN Member ( AL, GA, MS, TN)

 

Part two of a two-part series.

 

Without dating yourself, how many folks remember the old trope of the loveable guy trying to take care of the family and home? From Michael Keaton’s Mr. Mom to John Candy’s Uncle Buck to modern versions like Adam Sandler in Big Daddy, Eddie Murphy in Daddy Day Care, and The Rock in The Game Plan, it’s always an easy laugh to see the rough and tough alpha male take care of kids and perform what were stereotypically female roles of cooking, cleaning, and rearing children. As gender roles have evolved to where many of the domestic duties are now shared, there remain some positions in various industries where females still dominate the workforce.

 

For example, in our industry, there are several roles that are often female dominated. According to the Census Bureau, almost 81% of bank tellers are female. And, among law firms, 72.8% of paralegals are women. In recent years, these numbers have shifted from the 1960s, where the numbers were almost entirely lopsided. Other roles in the court, like court reporters and clerks have also been traditionally  staffed by females. The stereotype is that paralegals, clerks, and bank tellers are seen as administrative and secretarial roles that are “suitable” for women.  As we all can attest, this is simply not true. As the work and expectations of staff have changed, the roles have evolved to become more than just sitting at a desk and answering a phone while typing. As technology has improved, so has the skills of the workforce. As shocking as it may seem, even today, there are some attorneys who do not have their own email or computer and rely solely on their staff to type letters and pleadings. Some may even have an old Dictaphone sitting around. But as the needs of the legal community evolve, the role has now developed to where the duties and responsibilities are no longer purely secretarial. This change has helped remove many of the stereotypes associated with support roles in the legal and banking community.

 

Another role that has been traditionally female dominated is that of the caregiver. From early education teachers, to social workers, to massage and occupational therapists, positions that require empathy, care, and more nurturing instincts have been seen as female only roles. As those comedic movies mentioned above have shown – men are just as capable of being effective caregivers. As stereotypes fade about how men must be macho, type-A, aloof, emotionless beings, more opportunities have opened for those who can connect emotionally with those in need. Our society has also recognized that anybody can be good at working with children and those in need of assistance. But, even with gradual changes in attitude, men are still barely represented in early education roles, as studies estimate that workers who are male range from 1.4% to 3%. Men in these fields still often deal with stigmas or being labeled as not being a “real man.” Researchers have shown that having a diverse, early interaction with men, especially in single-parent households, can help broaden a child’s growth and development. And further, by having males in this uncommon role, it can help shatter stereotypes that would otherwise be reinforced in a female-dominate role. Famed tennis player Novak Djokovic has a foundation that advocates for the importance of men in early childhood education.  The National Association for the Education of Young Children also provides services to help recruit men to these roles.

 

Lastly, as we return to pre-pandemic life,  many of us are returning to flying and traveling. In our travels, we often notice certain roles that have traditionally been lopsided for one gender or the other. For example, female pilots still make up only 5% of the commercial airlines in the U.S. And, on the flip side, flight attendants remain heavily female, although the percentage of men has increased in the U.S. from 19% to 26% since 1980. This growing number can be attributed to the changing expectations of flight attendants. For the older crowd, many can remember that flight attendants were also called stewardesses, and they were often viewed as eye candy for the traveling man. Uniforms were tightfitting,  and sometimes left little to the imagination.  Back when flying was a luxury afforded to a few and the clientele was mostly male, stewardesses were sexualized to be a cocktail waitress in the sky. Some airlines even forbade men from becoming attendants. Thankfully, now, flight attendants have evolved to more than just a drink server. The security and safety of the flight is of the utmost importance. Flight attendants provide more than just peanuts and Coke; they assist the pilots in providing a smooth and safe flight. By having a diverse crew, this can also help in emergency situations and help keep the cabin calm. Many of the stereotypes of a male flight attendant are luckily being overshadowed by the immense benefits of this role – from free flight benefits to flexible schedules to being able to see the world.

 

In the end, often many of the jobs and roles that are uncommon for men seem to have a common thread - that the job is seen as feminine or not “manly.” But, as those roles are either evolved or completely changed, it has helped to increase the diversity of the workforce. As gender roles continue to blur, no longer can it be easily claimed that a man is not good at typing or caring for children. While differences may exist on a biological level, many of the perceived strengths and weaknesses are born through generations of stereotyping. As we continue to break down those misconceptions, changing the mindset and expectations of traditionally female roles will continue to help create the best results for our industry and others.

 

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